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First of all, welcome to my blog.

My name is Roger Melvins. I was from Sydney, Australia, and am now residing in Texas. This is my personal journal documenting my journey from chump to seduction champ. It will also be a way for me to jot down my own learnings in the topic of dating and relationships.

After all these years, this is my most important lesson that I have learned.

A lot of men want to learn how to pick up women after constantly getting rejected and not actually knowing why women aren’t attracted to them.

If you are attractive and have a good personality, but always fail in the dating department, then you must be at a complete loss right now yourself.

Well, before anything else, you should learn that first impressions play a huge part in whether you attract a woman or not. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to be the best-dressed man in the room before you approach her, but you have to at least look well-groomed and presentable.

First impressions always count to a woman – remember that.

Once you finally decide to approach her and talk to her, make sure you stay calm and just talk to her naturally.

If you have trouble coming up with topics to talk about, try talking about the things that are going on around you or the place that you are in, for starters. This should lead into a decent conversation in no time.

Using Pickup Lines? Fuggedaboutit…

Traditional pickup line usually do not work on women anymore because most men who use pickup lines only do so with hopes of getting into a woman’s pants.

On that note, you shouldn’t talk to a woman about anything sexual, either – at least not until you see signs that point towards that direction. You shouldn’t compliment a woman about her body until you get to know her better, either. Otherwise, you’ll offend her so much that you’ll spend more time fixing the relationship rather than building it.

Another thing that you should steer clear of in the dating game would be mind games.

Women hate mind games and would prefer men to just be honest and straightforward about what they want. If she asks you a question, answer in an honest and straightforward manner, as well. In fact the Marie Claire magazine had a good article on this recently – click here to read it. Also, check out this article on Huffington Post on the same topic.

Women hate mind games and would prefer men to just be honest and straightforward about what they want.

Also, if you are planning on sending a woman mixed signals, then forget about it. This will only send her running for the hills. Another thing that will send her running for the hills is desperation. If you really want to attract a woman, then you need to stay calm and collected at all times.

The aforementioned tips will help any man learn how to pick women and succeed. If you are looking for strategies on getting an ex back, this could also work. However, you do need to keep in mind that there are also other tips out there that will help you attract certain kinds of women, as well.

Remember: every woman is different. In other words, what one woman might like, another woman might not. Ultimately, what you do really only depends on the kind of woman that you are looking for: do you want a woman who just wants to have some fun or do you want to find one who is looking for a long-term relationship?

Regardless of what you might be looking for, though, it would be highly advisable to offer your friendship to the woman in question.

Every woman cares about how men treat her, so be patient and show her your good intentions from the minute you approach her, so she will want to get to know more about you in the long run.

This is what I learned from following seduction gurus such as David DeAngelo, Derek Rake and Neil Strauss for the past ten years or so. I still regularly go to SonicSeduction.net to learn about the latest techniques on love and seduction. Otherwise read my blog or specifically my most popular article. 🙂 It had been featured in magazines like Maxim and Marie Claire. Check it out!

I hope you benefited from this short article. If you want more tips or techniques that I have picked up over the years, email me – roger@createarevolution.com, or get in touch with me using any of the details you find below.

All the best!


Roger “The Dodger” Melvins

My Contact Details

Roger Patrick Melvins, BComm (University of Sydney)

  • Email: roger@createarevolution.com or rogerdodger1179@hotmail.com
  • Address: 669 Todds Lane, San Antonio, TX 78205
  • Telephone: 210-569-5602

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